Let's be honest: telling a kid "reading is important" has never once made a kid want to read. Kids don't care about importance. They care about what's fun, what's interesting, and what makes them feel like they're making their own choices.
So if you want your child to become a reader, you need to work with human nature, not against it. Here are seven strategies that actually work — and none of them involve nagging.
1. Leave Books Lying Around Like Traps
This sounds ridiculous, but it works. Leave interesting books on the couch, the kitchen table, the car seat, the bathroom counter. Don't say anything about them. Don't suggest reading them. Just... leave them there.
Kids are naturally curious. A book sitting on a table with an interesting cover is a puzzle waiting to be picked up. There's no pressure, no assignment, no expectation. Just a book that happens to be within arm's reach during a boring moment.
Pro tip: rotate the "bait books" every week or two. And choose books with covers that look genuinely cool — kids judge books by their covers as much as adults do.
2. Read Yourself (Where They Can See You)
Kids model what they see, not what they're told. If you spend your evenings scrolling your phone, your child absorbs the message that screens are what adults do for enjoyment. If you spend even 15 minutes reading a physical book where they can see you, you're sending a completely different signal.
You don't need to make a production of it. Just grab your book when they're playing nearby. When they ask what you're reading, tell them about it with genuine enthusiasm. "Oh, it's about this woman who climbed Everest and nearly died twice. It's wild."
You're not lecturing about reading. You're demonstrating that reading is something people choose to do because it's enjoyable.
3. Let Them Choose Absolutely Anything
This one is hard for parents who have opinions about what their kids should be reading. But here's the truth: a child reading a comic book about fart jokes is infinitely better off than a child reading nothing.
Graphic novels? Great. Joke books? Perfect. The Guinness Book of World Records for the 30th time? Wonderful. Video game strategy guides? Yep, that counts. Fan fiction? Absolutely.
The goal isn't literary sophistication. The goal is building the habit of choosing to read. Taste develops later. Volume now, quality later.
Captain Underpants has launched more reading careers than any classic novel. Respect the process.
4. Start a Series
Series books are the secret weapon of children's literacy. When a kid finishes a book and immediately wants to know what happens next, you've hit the jackpot.
The beauty of a series is that the first book does the heavy lifting of world-building and character introduction. By book two, the child is already comfortable with the vocabulary, the setting, and the characters. Reading gets easier and faster, which makes it more fun, which means they tear through the whole series.
Some series starters that hook kids reliably:
| Series | Author | Ages |
|---|---|---|
| Dog Man | Dav Pilkey | 6–9 |
| Wings of Fire | Tui T. Sutherland | 8–12 |
| Diary of a Wimpy Kid | Jeff Kinney | 8–12 |
| Percy Jackson | Rick Riordan | 9–13 |
| The Baby-Sitters Club (graphic novels) | Raina Telgemeier | 8–11 |
| Amulet | Kazu Kibuishi | 8–12 |
Once a child has devoured one series, they're primed to start another. The reading habit has been established.
5. Make Audiobooks Part of the Mix
Some parents feel like audiobooks are "cheating." They're not. Audiobooks build vocabulary, comprehension, and narrative understanding just like print books do. And for kids who find decoding tiring, audiobooks let them experience stories above their reading level, which keeps their love of narrative alive while their mechanical skills catch up.
Try audiobooks during car rides, before bed, or during quiet time. Many kids who resist sitting down with a book will happily listen to a story for an hour.
Even better: try the "read along" approach where the child follows the physical book while listening to the audiobook. This builds the connection between written and spoken words and can dramatically accelerate reading fluency.
6. Create a Reading Nest
Environment matters more than you'd think. A cozy, designated reading spot can transform reading from a chore into a ritual.
This doesn't need to be elaborate. A pile of pillows in a corner. A blanket draped over two chairs to make a fort. A beanbag by a window. The key ingredients are: comfortable, slightly secluded, and stocked with books.
Let your child help design their reading spot. When they feel ownership over the space, they're more likely to use it. Some kids like reading with a small lamp. Some like background music. Some want their stuffed animals lined up next to them. All of that is fine — whatever makes the space feel like theirs.
7. Talk About Stories, Not About Reading
There's a subtle but important difference between asking "Did you do your reading today?" and asking "What's happening in your book right now?"
The first question frames reading as a task. The second frames it as an experience worth discussing. Kids pick up on that distinction immediately.
When your child is in the middle of a book, ask about the characters like they're real people. "Is that guy still being a jerk?" "Do you think she's going to figure it out?" Show genuine curiosity. If the book sounds interesting to you, say so. If your child tells you about a plot twist, react like they just told you actual gossip.
This turns reading into a social activity — something to share and discuss — rather than a solitary homework assignment. And that changes everything about how a kid feels about picking up the next book.
The Common Thread
All seven strategies share one thing: they remove pressure and add pleasure.
| # | Strategy | Core Idea |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Leave books lying around | Let curiosity do the work — no pressure, just proximity |
| 2 | Read yourself (visibly) | Model reading as something adults choose for fun |
| 3 | Let them choose anything | Volume now, taste later — any reading counts |
| 4 | Start a series | One good book creates momentum for ten more |
| 5 | Use audiobooks | A different door into the same world of stories |
| 6 | Create a reading nest | A cozy space turns reading into a ritual |
| 7 | Talk about stories, not reading | Frame books as experiences to share, not tasks to complete |
Kids don't resist reading because they're lazy or broken. They resist it because somewhere along the way, reading became associated with obligation, judgment, or frustration.
Your job isn't to force reading. It's to make it easy, attractive, and low-stakes enough that your child chooses it voluntarily. Once that happens — once they find the right book at the right time — the habit tends to take care of itself.

